Sand Kicked in My Face

I remember in the back of the Archie comics that I read as a kid, back in the 1970s, the ad about the wimpy guy getting sand kicked in his face by the big beach bully.

That has been the story of much of my life.

Of all the many songs that sometimes speak to me in certain parts of my life, “We Are the Champions” resounds the loudest.

When I hear Freddie sing the words,

I’ve paid my dues
Time after time
I’ve done my sentence
But committed no crime

And bad mistakes
I’ve made a few
I’ve had my share of sand kicked in my face
But I’ve come through

I know exactly what Freddie is talking about.

I’ve had sand kicked in my face time and time again all through my life. I’ve committed no crime, but I, too, have done my sentence for nothing I did wrong, punished for nothing.

Like Freddie, I am a Champion, and together with him, “we’ll keep on fighting ’til the end.”

I don’t know if I will gain muscles like Charles Atlas in that muscle man ad in the comic book, but I know I will grow stronger every day, even at the age of 60. I am still growing stronger and gaining strength.

There is “no time for losers,” like Freddie says. I am a Champion, and I’m going forward, “fighting ’til the end.”

Towards the end of my memoir, this song plays an important role in my journey in life. I sing along with Freddie and realize, yes, I, too, am a Champion even with my years of life. My best years are yet to come.

As a musician, I know that Freddie ends the song on a dominant seventh (V7) chord, which means he didn’t finish the harmony and chord progression. The song really did not end. Being a Champion does not end it goes “on and on and on.”

Like Freddie, my life has…

… been no bed of roses
No pleasure cruise
I consider it a challenge before the whole human race
And I ain’t gonna lose

Yes, Freddie, you and me, we ain’t gonna lose.

We Are the Champions!

I can relate to and understand much of what Freddie is saying. I too, know that quest to be loved, trying to find someone to love me. It’s been an unaccomplished journey, for the most part, for me.

I can say I have the love of my daughter that I know. People have come and gone throughout my life, and I can say few, if any loved me. People who should have loved me in life, didn’t. I have been surrounded by a lifetime of broken and immature people who didn’t give me love. I didn’t pick my parents or family. That’s life.

So Freddie sings me this song. It’s our anthem. The style of singing is that of a gospel church with the soloist, Freddie, and the background choir. It’s a religion, a spiritual quest, for me and Freddie to find someone to love us. Freddie’s journey is over. My hope and prayer is that he has now found True Love.

I, on the other hand, am still looking, and my journey continues.

I sing this song to myself in my memoir.

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14 responses to “Sand Kicked in My Face”

  1. Andrew Henry Avatar
    Andrew Henry

    Tony, this is awesome! You are a survivor! It is wonderful to see you write so beautifully about where you are today. You encourage me to keep on fighting! Thanks for sharing this. I do believe there is a writer in you. Who knows maybe one day you will get an income from your writings. I think people need to hear your story.

    1. ajtonyperkins Avatar
      ajtonyperkins

      Thank you, Andrew, for responding and for your insightful comments. This is the new chapter for my life and my game plan for the rest of my time. Learning and doing something new makes me feel young.
      I think people need to hear my story, and I will let you know when my book is published. I will also post the info here, so as they say, stay tuned.

  2. Carol Maura Poshka Avatar
    Carol Maura Poshka

    AJT Perkins – Wonderful Writing and insight..The part about the We Are the Champions song never ending and goes on and on…was impressive.It is like having the Armor of God Ready to protect your Soul+Being…When one is young and people kick sand on You- you take it personally – not viewing it as They are Telling you who They are.. .You appear to be ( from knowing yo on FB) one of the Most Centered people I have ever encountered…It is Exciting! you will be speaking and your writing talents will be shared more widely.You have been in many amazing life experiences from your bio..I appreciate your point of view.

    1. ajtonyperkins Avatar
      ajtonyperkins

      Thank you, Carol, for all the kind Kudos. I appreciate your encouragement I am starting a new journey with writing, and I don’t know where it’s going, but I do know I am moving forward and not standing still.

      1. Carol Maura Poshka Avatar
        Carol Maura Poshka

        GREAT How exciting!.Truth is Symphonic! And
        With your very unique point of view and life experiences People will be very drawn to your writings.. Like people look at Opera because it is at it’s core always about Love., perhaps they will see that element as a thread in your writings..and see a resource.

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        Carol Maura Poshka

        Mazel tov..Can’t wait to see More

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